Depend on yourself.

Sometimes when I need help, no one gives me a hand ,this often makes me feel sad. But I won't blame anyone, because I know no one has the responsibility to help me and I must rely on myself.

When I was young, I get used to rely on others about anything, and thought it's very convenient. But one day, things have changed. When I got lost by myself in the downtown area, I was very frightened and vacant. I tried to contract with my friends, but they all had their own things and could not give me any useful help. I was too shy to ask stranger something about the way to come back, but I had no choice.

Since that day, I try to do everything by myself and learn how to be independent. I know, a people who can do nothing without others help are unwelcome. Maybe backed by a good shade tree can make us feel comfortable, but we cannot always rely on others.

Don't indulge in a life of pleasure and comfort, we must experience more by ourselves so that we will grow up. Just believe where there's a will, there's a way.

Honey, believe in yourself

Honey, please believe in yourself. I know ,now you are in the lowest mood just because you did not achieve what you have strived for,your teacher did not show a lot preference to you, your classmates did much better than you,and I pointed out your shortcomings at a inappropriate time, so you lost your own hope, you felt disappointed with your performance,you did not exactly know where you should go, what you should do. Sincerely speaking ,I am terribly sorry for blaming you, but I am not intentious,I just want you to be excellent. I point out your drawbacks, just hoping you could realize them and improve yourself.But I did not expect that you are hurt so much. I feel so sorry ,please pardon me. I know what I should do ,I should give you full support at any time.Please do not lose hope, do not say bad words to yourself,do not give up your dream. Do you still remember what we were like in college? We all had our own dreams, we tried our best to accomplish our goal. When we were studying ,we were like strangers,we did not talk to much just for saving time to study. I had lots of power to work hard,you had lots too,not only from gratefulness for our parents' ,but also from our love,and our desire for the future. Now ,it is still the same,nothing has changed,but our attitude. You should keep in mind that you are not alone, you have your parents' expectations, you have your friends' hopes, and you have my love and support. It is really a difficult process to attain our goal. Just believe in yourself, you could make it.You have the capability,and you are very clever.I believe in your ability, I think your parents do believe too,so do your friends. Come on,let's work hard together just like before.Honey ,I love you.I would support you and understand you forever.