Thursday, April 27, 2017

Learn to say no.

I changed lots of opinions about seeing a person.Try to be frank and true,is there anybody to tell what is the sincerest outside family?Just a few years ago,I maybe dislike the people working around me,and sometimes feel uncomfortable.At that period,cheap oakley sunglasses, I wrote lots of diaries about communicating with the people I got on with.Different ideas made me tired up with everything.I was sure it was not good for me,getting farther and farther with them only indicates that I couldn't adapt to them well.I always wanna show them a better behavÄ«or and even though something I don't wanna do,I seldom say no.
Doing things always with too much care is really not a good way of living or communicating.Thinking too much is also terrible. In fact,nobody requires you or say everything isn't like what we imagine.Nobody can pay attention to you every minute,or they won't mind how you show them.They only care how you deal with the benifits between you both.Everything in usual days is a kind of mask,let's take easy to enjoy each moment!To be a frank and true person,needn't to wonder,which is just a waste of time.Say out what you want,to deal with things with own willness.
Maybe it's a very hard beginning,however I will try and keep on.Take off the mask of an always kind-hearted person.Avoid getting into the state of regretness in later days.We can pretend to be kind and sincere,but can't deceive our own feelings.If I like,cheap jerseys, I can help you,if not,to follow heart.

Who said lies to me ?

Such a question always occurs to me these days,who has been saying lies to me?Repeat listening to the tapes again and again.The last judement is that the two persons are both dubitable.One is leadership,wholesale nfl jerseys, the other is so-called friend for years.I won't believe any of them,because of their position and benefit.I think all of these aren't  important for me at all,I never expect for the attention from any leadership,or never think it important for me to have a friend who has completely different ways of doing and thinking about things.Just for my professional title,which is the only thing what I need to solve now. She found me and always told me not to disunderstand her,actually,it's not meaningful at all.Lots of things made me know her more and more,not only this one,although I never mentioned them in front of her.
I feel so easy in heart,I never say lies to them,never cheat anyone.So I understand now that no matter what I will face in the future,try to be a true person,do things with more carefulness,no matter doing wrongly or rightly,try to acknowledge and face, never fear loss of face,which is actually the least important for a person,however,cheap nfl hats, a peaceful heart is the most important.
We can find the false sense of pride and social relationship back easily,while we can never find the same thing back to do it again.

With much more carefulness.

In about twenty teaching years,maybe this year is the one I have been with much more carefulness.Thinking of the past years,cheap nfl jerseys, I especially attached importance to their studies,however,I find everything's changing.Besides study,health,safeness and joys are maybe the most that students need at their time of life.I know the interest on study is hard to change,and much harder to insist studying for long.Slowly by slowly,I pay attention to their coming and going.Wish them to be happy everyday,not to fight,not to be rude,not to be late,not to do what they shouldn't do~~Learn to be polite and lovely persons.I think most of them are sensible children,cheap snapbacks, lovely indeed!Sometimes I wonder whether it is because I am their mainteacher to have such impressions?
To be frank,I cherish this term very much.which is maybe my last time to be a mainteacher.I should care and manage them with more carefulness,however,sometimes.naughtiness and joys aren't good partners.Everyday, I look round to make sure whether everyone is in the classroom before class,which is already become one of my habits,I feel I am just  like a mom.I will laugh while they laugh,be sillent when they speak nothing.hh.I put each of them into my heart,seldom forget the things of class or theirs.Even when I am at home,cheap replica oakleys, I will think of them now and then.I can't help smiling when thinking of funny things in the class or those interesting boys.
Thank you all for bringing me such joys.Maybe nobody can understand how I see you or like you.

Monday, April 17, 2017

An orangutan daughter

Nowadays, many people choose to keep a dog or a cat as their daughter or son, which makes me feel so surprised. Nevertheless, a report shocked me again several months ago-- a French couple have kept an orangutan as their daughter for 18 years.
The thivillons have a private zoo, and they have adopted many maltreated animals and brought them up in it. The little orangutan was born in the zoo, cheap oakley sunglasses, but her mother was unhappy with her birth and she never fed her,finally the baby orangutan was deserted. The couple had no choices but to take her home and attend to her. In the daytime, they play together; in the evening, they sleep together,just like a harmonious family. They have lived together for so long time, gradually, they know each other very well, even a gesture. As a matter of fact, it is not easy to bring up an orangutan, Digit is fond of bananas, in addition to this, she is keen on chocolates, too. You can never imagine how much money the old couple spend on them. Now their only worry is that nobody can look after her.
Word in word, what i want to emphasize is not who can take care of her, but we should learn the spirits from the couple, cheap nfl jerseys, for that she would be sheltered properly. They believe that animals should be treated carefully, we should establish a good relationship with animals.

time changes everthing

i had been puzzled by a lot of things after obtain a job. i regarded those things can not be well done, wholesale jerseys, i was only a young man who has no experience in how to finish the work by myself. i was a new face to other colleagues and felt ashamed of seeking help.  As a new one, i eagerly wanted to prove my value but situations always expanded to unexpect sides. Once i finished a difficult task, sometimes later, it was sad to find that the thing i had done was more useless in whole assignment or the merits should be own to somebody else after debations. That is one passage hard times. I even doubted my ability to do everything, and there was no confidence to communicate.
time changes everthing.
with the observathion and learning from colleagues around me, i accumulated a wealth of experience. i turned to be calm and plentiful considering before settling problems.  Those things looked like difficult to deal with in work, cheap mlb hats, in most cases could be finished well in specially designed manners.
maybe there is the same feeling to many peoples around ourselves.

The Day of Orientation Meeting

Excited as we are, we finally meet the day to welcome this year's freshmen.Extremly the whole school has been preparing for the orientation meeting, cheap jerseys, also our Language and Culture Academy.
As a member of our academy's student union, we had a serious meeting on September 2ed. We got different tasks in accordance with the chairman's arrangements. I was arranged for leading the freshmen from the square outside the gym to our academy's register place in the gym.
On September 3rd, I got up so early at 4 o'clock, but I didn't feel so sleepy that time. Perhaps just because I was filled with enthusiasm. I was well-dressed, hoping to leave a good impression on the freshmen and ready to give them generous smiles. What's more, I'm sincerely eager to give them my hands. The main reason is that from my perspective, I have a total understanding of what they are thinking about or how do they feel since I have experienced this.
When I was on the way to leading them to the right place, I asked them questions and chatted with them. It is so interesting to find everybody has his own personalities and characteristics. Some of them are talkative and outgoing, curious about everything and willing to share their thoughts. On the contrary, some of them seem to be shy and always keep silent, cheap snapback hats, just answering my questions. Keeping my eyes on them can easily discover what we liked and how did we perform at this time last year.
At the end of that day, I was worn out. Though my feet, legs and waists suffered great pain, I still felt happy and was satisfied with what I had done. That was a wonderful day.

Friday, April 14, 2017

A Story of My Nightmare

"Good night, sweetheart." "Good night, mom" That's the ending of a day.However, it may be the beginning of the night. The truth is that I can't be a lucky dog every night so that I had a nightmare that night.
I suddenly opened my eyes, feeling colder and colder. Finding myself was not in my room but in a wilderness shocked me. cheap oakley sunglasses, The whole world seemed to full of mist and the sun hid behind the thick clouds. So worried and panicky I was, that I began to yell for help. No matter how hard I tried, no one replied. A horrible thought occurred to me---- I was abandoned by everyone. This can't be true, shaking my head. I kept finding as many reasons as I could to comfort myself and tried to convince myself to deny the terrible hypothesis. Perhaps someone was there in a far distance so that he could not hear me. Taken this as my last hope, I decided to run to find out whether there was someone else. Tears in my eyes nearly fell down. When I unfurled my legs, I find myself just standing still, no change. I tried again, but it still made no sense. It was so ridiculous!NO!Don't leave me alone. I gradually became depressed and burst into tears. The foggy mist swallowed me.
You may not think this is a nightmare but just a simple scene. As a matter of fact,cheap jerseys, this is actually a terrifying nightmare for me. Losing everyone or just someone is an extremely hard thing for me. And I sincerely don't want anyone to leave me. This is me.

Post Traumatic Growth

  I read a speech given by a famous human resource director last week. Her idea which impressed me a lot deserves to spread. The speech starts with a question. If your company launches a search for an open position.wholesale nfl jerseys, The applications start rolling in and the qualified candidates are identified. There are two persons for you. Person A who graduated from Ivy League has flawless resume and great recommendations. Person B who graduated from state school had amount of job hopping and odd jobs, like cashier or singing waitress. Who are you going to pick?
  She uses two words to describe these two distinct categories of candidates calling A"the Silver Spoon" who had clear advantages and was destined for success, calling B the"Scrapper"who had to fight against difficulties to reach the same goal. She explained that she had met some person whose experiences are various. Sometimes job hoppings mean inconsistency, lack of focus or unpredictability. But she will consider interviewing them before tossing resumes away. Because that may signal a committed struggle against obstacles and they know how to handle the tough time. At the very least, they deserve an interview.The cinventional thinking has been that the trauma leads to distress. But children who experient poverty, abandonment or death of parents can also succeed. The worst circumstance can result in growth and transformation. This is a phenomenon which scientists call Post Traumatic Growth. Steve Jobs, who did not finish the college and job hops quite a bit. To top it off,cheap nfl hats, he has dyslexia.Actually, he becomes one of the world's most highly successful entrepreneurs.
It indicates that we should regard adversity as a sort of motive, which can help us become more meticulous and assiduous. To a great extent, we know who we are because of adversity.

My unpleasant dream

One day I wake up at 7 o'clock suddenly, secondarily I found a terrible affair that it is 7 o'clock but I have an examination after a half an hour. That was too bad why my alarm clock didn't ring and why I wake up until 7 o'clock. Afterwards, cheap snapbacks, in order to arrive at our test classroom I had a quick shower, put on my clothes randomly, brushed my teeth and washed a face in the course of ten minutes and what's more rushed out as soon as the door opened.
The class was extremely quiet and and all students sat on their seats, additionally the teacher was standing in front of the platform. How embarrassed but I had to say loudly " I'm sorry, I'm late. May I come in?
" So that the teacher can notice me. Time seems to be still when teacher stare at me for a while, and subsequently he said " Come in,start your test quickly. " I entered the classroom in a panic, found out my place and sat down, after that unbelievable thing happened. Where is my school bag?
My pen, my papers and all my things were gone. What I can do just sit there by myself. It must be a nightmare and how I could do for this situation,cheap replica oakleys, great fear struck me with my heart high speed beats.
What is about the outcome?
It is really a nightmare of unpleasant and lousy as a matter of fact.

A new life

I am not sure what to say as I haven't had any writting for a long time, something in how to write might be forgot by myself. However, I do love writting just like it becomes a part of my life. Sometimes the things I wrote could make others peaceful, that's my very time of being happiness, and that's my purpose of writting.

I myself was an introvert person before and had been hurt many times, I do know the peace of a heart means, one once said, cheap nfl jerseys, "everyday is another page in your book called life". So, friends, cherish your time and the person around you.

A new life, means, I must do from the basic, and abandon the thoughts which are too unrealistic. Never forget your dreams, buddy!